Melissa Donald

Jones…another “J”

“There is truly nothing better than a simple lifestyle. Trying to keep up with the crowd is guaranteed to complicate your life.” ~ Edmond Mbiaka There was a time when I looked out at my driveway and saw a Mercedes…

J is for Justice

Social media is absolutely crazed with blogs, articles, comments, opinions, pictures and more than a smidge of vigilantism over the killing of Cecil in Zimbabwe. There is not a single human with internet access who is unaware of what happened…

Integrity, the other I

This past weekend, I kept a promise I made 30 years ago to my BFF. We attended our 30th class reunion. We promised that we would go to all reunions that ended in -0-. We tried to talk ourselves out…

I is for Image

I don’t really follow professional sports. I did, however, watch the last three games of the NBA finals this year since the local team was playing. The Warriors played like champions and deserve the title. After game six, I posted…

Hindsight…another H

When my mentor challenged me to do this writing exercise (Challenge), it did not occur to me how reflective it would be…how far I would dig into the stories and events that produced the lessons. I am pretty sure HE…

H is for Heart

So, I get to “H” and “Heart” is one of my words. I immediately think “Oh man, people are going to expect something about love – and gooey emotional things”. Not my gig. I felt stuck. Not stuck at all…It’s…

Glass Ceilings…the other “G”

I have slammed into the glass ceiling a time or two in my career. The last time was so blatant that I was stunned speechless. My boss gave a substantial raise to my male counterpart because “he has a family…

“G” is for Gastric Bypass Surgery

While presenting at a BNI Visitor Day recently, there was a man in the front row that looked familiar. When the visitors introduced themselves, I knew. Afterward, I asked him if he and his wife had sold a house in…

The Final “F”…a Little About Factoring

I spent last week in New Orleans at the IFA’s (International Factoring Association) annual convention. Translation – three days “geeking-out” on all things factoring, with some really fun vacation time thrown in. Factors from all over the world come together…

Fear…Another “F” Word

At some point, Factoring will be the “F” word I write about. Really. Today though, “F” is for fear. Not “Scary Movie” fear. Not “Situational” fear. I am talking about creeping fear that becomes so normal we don’t recognize it…